Lesi siqeshana ngeke sishiye noma ubani engenandaba. Ubuciko obunjalo abuvamile. Ngicabanga ukuthi umlingisi kufanele awuthande ngempela ubuciko bakhe. Ukucwiliswa ngokuphelele esithombeni kuphela okungathungela isibukeli. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi yini okufanele ayenze kuhlaka. Lo wesifazane uyasijabulela lesi sikhathi futhi bengingeke ngicabange ukuthi ubengenzela ukushutha. Ngayithanda kakhulu.
Kwamthatha isikhathi eside ukuthi axolise ngamazwi. Kwakumele avele ame ahlikihle ingquza yakhe ekhuluphele phambi kukadadewabo, ubezomxolela ngomzuzwana nje. Kwadingeka sijuluke silahlekelwe yisikhathi ebesingasichitha embhedeni, senza ucansi lokubuyisana.